Answer: 
As you are using the database on the same machine of the application the connection configuration to the database can be changed to: 
<?php 
    $HOST = 'localhost:3388';
    $USER= '*****';
    $PASS= '*****';
    $BANCO = 'gclient_embratel';
    $conexao = mysql_connect($HOST,$USER,$PASS) or die('Não foi possivel conectar: '.mysql_error());
    $selecao = mysql_select_db($BANCO);?
?>
In place of the IP of your external machine defined in the variable $HOST put the value localhost, but could also be used 127.0.0.1.
How much the refused connection can occur for several factors, being the main ones: 
- Mysql database service was not started and is not running on port 3388. If you use Linux you can do the command - fuser 3388/tcpto check if there is a process using this port.
 
- Is there a restriction on your machine’s firewall to port 3388. 
- You are using a machine from - Amazon Web Servicesfor your application? It is necessary to release the port in the security settings of your instance.
 
Putting the value localhost in the variable $HOST probably the options 2 and 3 are discarded because local machine port 3388 will be accessed without external access.
							
							
						 
There may be several possibilities: 1 - The database server is not started on the machine (most likely), 2 - A firewall may be blocking access to the Mysql port.
– Giancarlo Abel Giulian